Secure in Christ: Mentalizing

The world we experience begins in our minds. Our thoughts and expectations form our dispositions and beliefs about ourselves. Ultimately, this affects how we see the world and the people we encounter. Have you ever tried giving people—even yourself— the benefit of the doubt and just couldn’t? People proved you right too many times for […]

Secure in Christ: An Introduction to Compassionate Self-Awareness

“Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength.” — August Wilson Up to this point we have done a lot of work—we know our attachment styles, […]